Sunday, July 7, 2013

the art of seduction




According to the dictionary seduction is something that attracts or charms. Seduction is the process of deliberately enticing a person, to lead astray, as from duty, rectitude, or the like to corrupt, to persuade or induce to engage in sexual behavior. While art is the expression or application of human creative skill and imagination. Two completely different words but when combined together forms a strategy,which is The Art of Seduction.

For me, I think seduction is just a natural phenomenon occurring when two people are attracted to one another, it happens naturally. Maybe you don't notice the whole process when it happened, but trust me it does. We may not admit it, but we all have our own ways of seducing someone. Seducing usually happens when two people are in the heat of doing it,and usually sex happens afterwards.

According to Robert Greene's The Art of Seduction, seduction is about power and manipulation as much as it is about romance, about how to make someone fall under your spell. According to the book there are 9 types of seducers and 18 types of victims. The book also contains 24 seduction techniques that manipulate everyone's greatest weakness- the desire for pleasure. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Art_of_Seduction

One must also know that seduction and flirting are completely different. According to an article by Lilly White which is titled The Difference Between Flirting and Seduction, " Men think about sex all the time, so this they are use to, you must be different and get their attention in an emotional way. The physical is easy, but the emotional takes a little more work."  http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Difference-Between-Flirting-and-Seduction&id=963630